What is Intimate Partner Violence?

Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) is abuse, aggression, and/or harm that occurs in a romantic relationship. “Intimate partner” has often been used to refer to current or former spouses or dating partners. Queer connections and chosen families can look different; but harmful power dynamics can take hold in different types of connections such as polyamorous relationships, within BDSM dynamics or in kink scenes, platonic connections, etc. 

We are not interested in shaming or stigmatizing any type of consensual connection between adults. 

What if I don’t identify or am unsure if I identify as LGBTQ+?

We do not require that our clients be part of the LGBTQ+ community to receive our services. Our services are catered to queer people, and our staff identifies as queer. We are equipped to serve all people who have experienced harm. If you are unsure about your identity, we are here for you. If you explicitly do not identify as queer, trans, or otherwise under the LGBTQ umbrella, you may access our services - and we urge you to consider whether you may be adequately served by a traditional domestic violence service provider in your county of residence before reaching out to our program.

How old do I have to be to receive services from SQSN?

Our services are available to people of all ages.

Can we provide services to people who have experienced Sexual Assault but not Domestic Violence?

Our funding is explicitly for people who have experienced relationship violence. If you have experienced sexual assault or violation in the context of your relationship, you can access our services. If you experienced sexual assault from a stranger or non-dating acquaintance, you’re welcome to reach out to us for resources and referrals for ongoing case management. We are currently exploring funding to expand our services to a broader range of survivors of harm and violence.

Does someone have to be sure they're experiencing DV to call?

Anyone can reach out to us. We are happy to talk through your situation, your experiences, and how to move forward with them.

Can someone call to get info on how best to support a friend or loved one experiencing DV?

If you’re looking for information on how to provide support to another person, you are welcome to contact us to process options. 

Building up support networks is often a crucial component of survival. 

Can we serve people outside of North Carolina?

As of right now, our project only has the capacity to serve folks located in North Carolina. We are hoping to expand that reach soon! We have goals and dreams of bringing advocate services to other queer communities in the South and in rural areas. 

Will callers' info be kept private?

All personal identifying information will be kept confidential. No paper records will be kept and all information is stored in a zero knowledge encrypted database that is inaccessible to anyone outside of the SQSN team. We are aware of the nuances of working within a relatively small community, and we are dedicated to respecting your privacy and confidentiality.  

Are there any costs for services?

All of our services are free of charge. 

Are there opportunities for volunteers?

Yes! We deeply value support from volunteers- if you are interested in supporting this project, feel free to reach out!

Contact

Advocate@LGBTQcenterofdurham.org

Visit our office at 1007 Broad Street Durham, NC 27705. 

Call our office at 919.827.1436 !